July Week 5, 2008

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Monday, July 28, 2008

"A time will come when a politician who has willfully made war and promoted international dissension will be as sure of the dock and much surer of the noose than a private homicide. It is not reasonable that those who gamble with men's lives should not stake their own"

H.G. Wells

Monica rode along with Amanda and I to Newport, Amanda gets to visit with her brothers and sister. Amanda really lights up when she sees them, genuine unconditional love is beautiful to behold. I wish that there were some way to preserve that relationship. The love a mother has for her children, at least initially.

I see a lot of children with their mothers who seem to be doomed to a life of struggle and strife. I just get the feeling that if they ever have a chance to excel it will be only after getting the hell away from their parents. I feel sorry for kids who hare born into a situation where their main obstacle between failure and success is their mother.

 

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Christy took G'ma & G'pa and Monica in to Colville. G'pa's spine , it's compressed to the point where it is virtually unusable, he is in a tremendous amount of pain and Christy wanted Rick to prescribe something new. the Pain medication he is taking now is just not working. He prescribed  Oxycodone or OxyContin, not sure which.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

(I can really identify with this cartoon)

 

I took the girls (less Autumn) to Colville, Amanda to get fitted for her contacts, Calie to get and eye exam and Monica to pick up her new glasses and get her allergy shot.

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Today was not my finest, Wrong primer bulb for the weedwhacker, the mower deck on the lawn mower broke and Monica got her hair stuck in a weed-whacker

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AUGUST

"Though force can protect in emergency, only justice, fairness, consideration and cooperation can finally lead men to the dawn of eternal peace": Dwight David Eisenhower : 34th president of the United States, 1890-1969
"Nothing short of self-respect and that justice which is essential to a national character ought to involve us in war": George Washington: First President of the United States, 1732-1799
"Justice in the life and conduct of the State is possible only as first it resides in the hearts and souls of the citizens" : Plato : Ancient Greek philosopher (428/427-348/347 B.C.)

"When good does evil in its struggle against evil, it becomes indistinguishable from its enemy."  T.S. Elliot

"A time will come when a politician who has willfully made war and promoted international dissension will be as sure of the dock and much surer of the noose than a private homicide. It is not reasonable that those who gamble with men's lives should not stake their own": H.G. Wells
"The soul of our country needs to be awakened . . .When leaders act contrary to conscience, we must act contrary to leaders": Veterans Fast for Life
"If we work in marble, it will perish; if we work upon brass, time will efface it; if we rear temples, they will crumble into dust; but if we work upon immortal minds and instill into them just principles, we are then engraving upon tablets which no time will efface, but will brighten and brighten to all eternity": Daniel Webster

Karadzic a deadly ‘healer’
 
By ROSA BROOKS 
Last updated: 4:59 a.m., Sunday, July 27, 2008

He looks like a cross between Santa Claus and a New Age guru, and he calls himself an alternative healer. But Radovan Karadzic, who was arrested in Serbia last Monday, stands accused of war crimes, genocide and crimes against humanity.

Karadzic is the former president of the “Republika Srpska” and one of the chief architects of the brutal Bosnian war.

He brought the concentration camp back to Europe and ordered Europe’s worst massacre since World War II (in 1995, Bosnian-Serb forces slaughtered more than 7,000 unarmed Bosnian Muslim men and boys near Srebrenica). With Karadzic’s approval, torture and starvation became routine methods of prisoner control, organized mass rape became a spectator sport and snipers were authorized to fire on children during the siege of Sarajevo.

Karadzic’s arrest was long overdue. He was indicted by the U.N.’s International Criminal Tribunal for the Former Yugoslavia at The Hague 13 years ago, and since then, he had hidden in plain sight, protected by tolerant Serbian officials. He replaced his trademark bouffant hairdo with a jolly white beard, took up acupuncture and holistic medicine and opened a practice as a New Age healer.

The irony has been lost on no one. Here’s a man accused of the worst crimes devised by human ingenuity, and he calls himself a “healer”?

But this shouldn’t surprise us. The perpetrators of atrocities have always favored metaphors of healing. Just as a physician might use purges to rid a patient’s body of internal toxins, Stalin imagined that his purges would rid the Soviet body politic of dangerous internal corruption. Hitler saw the Jews as “a cancer on the breast of Germany” and was convinced that the extermination of the Jews was essential to restoring the health of the Aryan nation. For Karadzic as well, there was probably no sense of discontinuity between healing and destroying; one was essential to the other.

It’s easy to dismiss all this with a cynical snort. Karadzic and other perpetrators of atrocities may use metaphors of healing, but they can’t really believe that killing and healing can be reconciled, right?

I’m not so sure. All the evidence we have suggests that human beings are adept at self-deceit. We trick ourselves constantly, in countless tiny ways, into believing that the bad deeds of others are very bad indeed, while our own are necessary, minor, forgivable — or maybe not even bad at all.

In one recent study, for instance, Northeastern University psychologists Piercarlo Valdesolo and David DeSteno found that when subjects were asked to assign tasks to themselves and to strangers, nearly all gave themselves easy tasks while assigning unpleasant tasks to people they didn’t know.

When asked if their actions were fair, subjects were quick to find appealing rationales to justify saddling strangers with all the lousy jobs. But these same subjects were quick to condemn the same selfish behavior when they saw others engage in it.

Most of us aren’t all that different from Karadzic or any of the other killers who cloaked their atrocities in the soothing rhetoric of healing. We’re all moral hypocrites, willing to believe our own justifications for the rotten things we want to do.

There’s a depressing lesson here. Uplifting rhetoric can genuinely mask the true nature of bad deeds — even from those who carry them out. As a nation at war, it’s a lesson we should remember.

But there’s some intriguing and potentially good news as well from the world of social psychology: Valdesolo and DeSteno also found that when experimental subjects were asked to assess the fairness of their own selfish behavior while simultaneously engaging in some other difficult mental task (memorizing a long string of numbers), they judged their behavior far more harshly.

It seems, Valdesolo and DeSteno concluded, that if you tie up some cognitive capacity with a difficult task, there’s just not enough brain power left over to successfully lie to yourself.

And maybe that’s reason for optimism. If hypocrisy is created and sustained by mental effort, maybe it’s something that we — and even the worst moral hypocrites — can eventually learn to unlearn.

Rosa Brooks teaches at the Georgetown University Law Center and writes for the Los Angeles Times. Her e-mail address is rbrooks@latimescolumnists.com.